Friday, December 30, 2011
The Head and The Heart
Few topics can create a passionate debate between your head and your heart quite like puppies. And when puppies suddenly enter into the lives of very close friends, the question of taking one home just as suddenly enters into your life. Your heart sees the sweet little creature, hears its tiny attempts at dog noises, feels its soft fur, and implores you to bring home the puppy.
Your head on the other hand, sees the very messy little creature. Sees how expensive it's going to be, sees how it's going to destroy your house and add more chaos to your already busy family and says a firm "no way" to the heart's emotional longing.
My 16-year-old daughter is all heart when it comes to puppies, as she should be. She has been lobbying for a dog since she was little and she is the girl who really does love animals. Her head, however, is nowhere near this decision. Doesn't take into account that she is leaving for college in about 18 months, or that she is a busy high school junior whose time is filled with school, sports and a job. She is quick to tell me that she will take care of a puppy; but when I ask her "when?", She just smiles a sheepish grin, realizing that she knows she has no time for a puppy, but she really hopes that I do!
A puppy, combined with a child who wants a puppy, is a dangerous combination. And if it weren't for the fact that I tend to give my heart a lot of input when making decisions, I might have some space for a puppy. But the fact is that my heart has brought me many animals over the years. We currently have four goats and one rabbit; but our home has hosted three guinea pigs, two other rabbits, one other goat, three hermit crabs and a few fish. Our daughters have been raised with all sorts of animals--mostly because of the longings and wishes of our collective hearts. And I am grateful for this.
My head, on the other hand, makes a very good case for why a puppy is not the best idea right now. My head is very rational. But in the end, this decision isn't made by either my head or my heart. Because in the end, neither has the complete picture--they are just part longing and part thinking. At some point, both voices, having been given time to win me over, become distilled into a knowing. Sort of like a gut instinct. And my instinct tells me that right now, things wouldn't go well for the puppy or for me at this point in time. It's not something I'm talking myself into or out of, I just know that my plate is full to the brim with other creatures and people who depend on me. And I'm also excited to jump into some new endeavors for me--without a puppy as a distraction.
I am, however, very grateful to have friends with puppies. We get to watch the puppies grow, pick them up and cuddle them, and play with them. Even puppy-sit from time to time! My heart and my head are both quite happy with this arrangement. Until the next time some baby creature come along and captures my heart and we do this process all over again...
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Sunset at Solstice
Spectacular Winter Sunset! Beautiful colors during our dark days. |
A nice finish to a pretty winter day. |
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
A Puppy Christmas!
Some dear friends of ours are in the midst of A Christmas Puppy Miracle. Or you could say a Christmas Puppy Crisis. Either way, the story is so fun, I've asked if I could share it. It starts like this...
Our friends, Jon and Jeannie, had been "dog-less" for a few months, and felt it was time to add animals back into their lives. Two beautiful Golden Retriever/Bernese Mountain dog sisters became available for adoption, and they decided these sweet sister dogs--pups really as they are only 18 months old--would make a great addition to their family. They have three girls and very full lives, but are the sort of people who need animals to round out the family chaos. Probably why we are such good friends.
The dogs they adopted, Bailey and Josie, are very sweet animals. They are the sort of dogs you know right away are more than just dogs. For those of you who love animals and are well acquainted with them, you know what I mean when I say that. Some dogs are just that--dogs. But every now and then you meet one who looks you in the eye and seems to speak to you. A dog with a soul. These two are those kind of dogs.
The pet adoption process went well, a few weeks went by and their family life returned to a nice "normal." Our friends went away for a Thanksgiving vacation and when they returned, after a very long flight, they of course greeted their dogs. Only Josie seemed a little off. And when they started to play with her, they felt something moving in her belly.
A quick bit of google research, followed by a visit to their vet, and they learned that their new "puppy" was about a week away from becoming a puppy mama! Unbeknownst to anyone, she was pregnant when they adopted her. And who is the father? Anyone's guess. When the original owners of the dogs were told of this puppy predicament, they answered that the dogs were outside on their 5 acre farm a lot. The father could be just about anyone.
I believe some panic, and some "how on earth are we going to deal with puppies right before Christmas", consumed them for a little while. Unplanned puppies are an exciting, but rather intrusive event! But they got to work, accepting that life is filled with unplanned surprises, and a week later in the wee hours of the morning, Josie began to deliver her pups. Ten tiny pups were born over the course of the night. It was a messy, messy process. Josie chose to deliver her pups in their old pack and play rather than in the nice whelping box Jon built. Which sounds just about right.
These pups were born last Thursday morning and our girls have been over several times. Truly, one never tires of watching tiny puppies wiggle and squirm and nurse and nap. Josie, the mama dog is the most natural mother I've ever seen. And it is sweet to watch her tend to her pups. Bailey is a little lost as she misses her sister. But she too is keeping a respectful distance and seems to know what her place is right now. It helps that she is getting lots of attention because no one can walk away from her--those eyes of hers tell everyone just how she is feeling and you can't help but to sit down and offer her some attention.
Our friends are handling this puppy miracle with such grace, and word has spread around this little island very quickly. I think they will have no problem finding homes for them all. The best line of all has come from their youngest daughter, who is also named Grace. When asked about what type of dog the father might be, Grace, who is four, answered, "well, it might be a hamster?"
Thank you Jon, Jeannie, Lindsay, Caroline and Grace for sharing your puppy miracle with us.
Bailey checking on her sister and wondering about those pups! |
Three black pups and seven golden pups were born. The black ones blend in with Josie. |
Grace, Lindsay and Caroline watching the first pup be born at 2:40 AM! |
Sophie holding one of the pups--you can see why Grace thought they might be part Hamster! |
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Golden-Leaved Goat Treats
Beautiful Fall colors brighten the shores of Puget Sound |
Sweet pea devouring as many leaves as will fit into her ample stomach! |
One of the many Big Leaf Maple trees towering above our goat yard |
It always feels like the beautiful colors and drifting leaves of Fall will go on and on. Then suddenly I look up at the trees and see that they are almost done. And then a rain storm like this comes through and washes off the few leaves still left on the trees and renders everything soggy. It looks like the goats are near the end of their delicious leaf buffet for the year.
Blackberry, Lily and Silver |
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Letting Go...
Yesterday I hopped into the shower after a hard day's work, only to discover that my hot water was in short supply. I was, after all, showering after my three daughters. I reached for my razor, thinking I should shave quickly before the goose bumps set in. Only the razor was gone. Stolen from my shower by my oldest who decided that stealing my razor would be easier than replacing the dull blade on her own.
And here we go again...life with three daughters. My stuff disappears. I can't keep nail polish in my bathroom. Or tweezers. Or clippers, or any "tool of beauty". Same goes for hair products and lotions. And it's not like the girls don't have their own lotions, and nail clippers. But they lose theirs. And somehow it is always easier to just grab mine than to look for their own.
If you're a guy you might as well stop reading now, because I am about to delve into the world of feminine products. First of all, I love that we have this name "feminine products" to use when talking about our pads and tampons. Makes it all sound so sanitary. But let's be honest. It's not sanitary, not at all. The girls' bathroom garbage can is overflowing with the wrappers that come from so many monthly cycles. And when I need my own products, are they handy? No, they've been raided...of course.
When the girls were little, I remember listening to my friends with little boys complain about the pee all around their toilet. 'Little boys have no aim at all!', they would sigh. And I think at that point in life, the girls were somewhat easier--at least in the realm of potty training. But I knew that my time would come. I looked ahead and saw that three daughters going through adolescence might be challenging. Other people would tease us. They would say things like, "wow, three daughters...aren't you in for some fun teenage years." And we all had a good laugh about the future. Yes, those are going to be some good days all right! Well, the future is here, and I'm not laughing. Mostly, I cry. I find that when we are all PMSing together, it helps to simply shed a few tears. Or a lot of tears depending on the month.
But here is the absolute, gut wrenching irony of the whole thing. I know that I will get to a place in life (down the road a bit), where I will actually miss this. And this is what makes motherhood so completely, utterly insane-asylum-crazy. Every phase that drives you around the bend is also the same phase that you will miss. I know this is true because we have been through so many phases already. The endless diaper, breast-feeding, sleepless night phase...I miss it. The bi-polar toddler, plastic toys all over the living room phase...I miss it. And just recently I even realized, (and this one is truly shocking) that now that Emily is driving, I kind of miss my time driving her all around. I know--totally crazy!!
And so it is with this history, that I acknowledge the future day when I will miss this phase of motherhood too. IF I make it through in one piece. And right now that is a little uncertain.
And here we go again...life with three daughters. My stuff disappears. I can't keep nail polish in my bathroom. Or tweezers. Or clippers, or any "tool of beauty". Same goes for hair products and lotions. And it's not like the girls don't have their own lotions, and nail clippers. But they lose theirs. And somehow it is always easier to just grab mine than to look for their own.
If you're a guy you might as well stop reading now, because I am about to delve into the world of feminine products. First of all, I love that we have this name "feminine products" to use when talking about our pads and tampons. Makes it all sound so sanitary. But let's be honest. It's not sanitary, not at all. The girls' bathroom garbage can is overflowing with the wrappers that come from so many monthly cycles. And when I need my own products, are they handy? No, they've been raided...of course.
When the girls were little, I remember listening to my friends with little boys complain about the pee all around their toilet. 'Little boys have no aim at all!', they would sigh. And I think at that point in life, the girls were somewhat easier--at least in the realm of potty training. But I knew that my time would come. I looked ahead and saw that three daughters going through adolescence might be challenging. Other people would tease us. They would say things like, "wow, three daughters...aren't you in for some fun teenage years." And we all had a good laugh about the future. Yes, those are going to be some good days all right! Well, the future is here, and I'm not laughing. Mostly, I cry. I find that when we are all PMSing together, it helps to simply shed a few tears. Or a lot of tears depending on the month.
But here is the absolute, gut wrenching irony of the whole thing. I know that I will get to a place in life (down the road a bit), where I will actually miss this. And this is what makes motherhood so completely, utterly insane-asylum-crazy. Every phase that drives you around the bend is also the same phase that you will miss. I know this is true because we have been through so many phases already. The endless diaper, breast-feeding, sleepless night phase...I miss it. The bi-polar toddler, plastic toys all over the living room phase...I miss it. And just recently I even realized, (and this one is truly shocking) that now that Emily is driving, I kind of miss my time driving her all around. I know--totally crazy!!
And so it is with this history, that I acknowledge the future day when I will miss this phase of motherhood too. IF I make it through in one piece. And right now that is a little uncertain.
Friday, November 4, 2011
Angry Rabbits and Friendly Goats
The animals are acting peculiar. Not quite normal. Of course this assumes that animals have a "normal" and aren't affected by the seasons, the weather and their hormones; which of course they are.
And I shouldn't go so far as to say that all of our animals are acting strangely. It's just the rabbit and one of our goats. The rabbit is mostly angry. He is currently an angry ball of white fluff. Every time we enter the barnyard, we enter slowly...and keep a sharp eye out for him. He doesn't bite or hurt us, but he runs at our feet while making these mad snorting sounds. The image most people have of a quiet little bunny? Not true. Rabbits are very capable of expressing themselves--or at least ours is.
He's mad when we come to feed him and he's mad when he's finished eating. He wants his rabbit treat, and he wants it right now! And we do of course feed him, but he seems extra hungry lately. After he finishes his food, he pulls the dish out of his hutch and tosses it into the air. We're pretty sure he's using some choice rabbit swear words as he does this. Our guess is that he senses the upcoming cold temperatures and is trying to fatten himself up. But the anger? Not sure why.
Blackberry is acting strangely too. Only his change is a good one. He is 3 1/2 years old and has been our goat since he was 3 months old. We named him Blackberry and he's grown into the name well. He is prickly. Untrusting. Difficult. His sixth sense about goat maintenance tasks like hoof-trimming and worming are impeccable, and make him difficult to work with. And after years of treats and care, he still maintains a suspicious eye for the humans in his life. He tolerates us, but has never seemed to bond with us.
But about two weeks ago, his suspicious nature started to crack. It seemed like he was trying to play...with me! At first I didn't know what to make of his behavior. He was acting like he does with the other goats, wagging his tail, turning his head, prancing and doing the crazy head butting thing they do. At first I wondered if he had finally decided to attack me. But he just wasn't acting aggressive. It was definitely playful. So I gave him a good scratch behind his ears and rubbed his back--something he rarely lets me do.
And now we have this ritual every morning after I bring the goats their hay. Blackberry wants attention from me! He is acting more like a golden retriever than a prickly goat. I suddenly feel like I have a lovable animal and I look forward to his funny morning antics. I'm pretty sure his change in behavior is a result of too much head-butting. Maybe he's finally given himself a concussion and has forgotten that he doesn't trust me.
Either way, I now enter the barnyard poised for an attack from the angry rabbit, and ready to play with my once prickly goat. The seasons are definitely changing.
Parsley the Rabbit |
He's mad when we come to feed him and he's mad when he's finished eating. He wants his rabbit treat, and he wants it right now! And we do of course feed him, but he seems extra hungry lately. After he finishes his food, he pulls the dish out of his hutch and tosses it into the air. We're pretty sure he's using some choice rabbit swear words as he does this. Our guess is that he senses the upcoming cold temperatures and is trying to fatten himself up. But the anger? Not sure why.
Blackberry is acting strangely too. Only his change is a good one. He is 3 1/2 years old and has been our goat since he was 3 months old. We named him Blackberry and he's grown into the name well. He is prickly. Untrusting. Difficult. His sixth sense about goat maintenance tasks like hoof-trimming and worming are impeccable, and make him difficult to work with. And after years of treats and care, he still maintains a suspicious eye for the humans in his life. He tolerates us, but has never seemed to bond with us.
Blackberry |
But about two weeks ago, his suspicious nature started to crack. It seemed like he was trying to play...with me! At first I didn't know what to make of his behavior. He was acting like he does with the other goats, wagging his tail, turning his head, prancing and doing the crazy head butting thing they do. At first I wondered if he had finally decided to attack me. But he just wasn't acting aggressive. It was definitely playful. So I gave him a good scratch behind his ears and rubbed his back--something he rarely lets me do.
And now we have this ritual every morning after I bring the goats their hay. Blackberry wants attention from me! He is acting more like a golden retriever than a prickly goat. I suddenly feel like I have a lovable animal and I look forward to his funny morning antics. I'm pretty sure his change in behavior is a result of too much head-butting. Maybe he's finally given himself a concussion and has forgotten that he doesn't trust me.
Either way, I now enter the barnyard poised for an attack from the angry rabbit, and ready to play with my once prickly goat. The seasons are definitely changing.
Sunday, October 23, 2011
A Mushroom Forest
Summer has given way to Fall, and Winter feels right around the corner. Each morning I awake to a little less light, a little more dark. The dampness is beginning to permeate the soil and the air, and I find that I am dragging my feet about going to work. It's warm in the house and cold outside.
But I am always glad for the fresh air and glad for a job that forces me outside, even when it's cold and rainy. The garden offers treasures to find in every season, and in the damp, cool of these Fall days, it is the mushroom forests that appear--seemingly overnight--that catch my eye.
Monday, October 17, 2011
Apple Season
Central Washington is also a beautiful destination for a Fall trip. Every year my family goes to Lake Wenatchee State Park, near the Bavarian-styled town of Leavenworth, for one last camping trip. The park is nearly deserted, the air is crisp and cold, and the fall colors are spectacular. We spend our evenings playing games at our campsite, huddled around a roaring campfire. Our days, on the other other hand, are filled with bratwurst and beer lunches at the Octoberfest celebration in Leavenworth, and hikes around Lake Wenatchee. It's a perfect balance of too much good food, too much good beer and too much relaxing. Definitely something to look forward to every year!
Crisp nights make for beautiful fall colors |
Sunday, September 25, 2011
A Tiny Tree Frog
A little green tree frog hidden in the rhododendron |
Sometimes the best garden art is the kind that surprises you. The kind that you hear before you see, and at first can't even find. I love the daily unfolding of life in the garden--creatures and plants working together, and me joining in the melee as both an observer and a natural force of my own.
And then, the discovery of a tiny tree frog hidden by its color, but adding its voice to the garden. Nature once again providing the best garden art.
Thursday, September 15, 2011
A Goat-proof Rabbit Hutch
Most rabbits live safe lives inside rabbit hutches. They might be bored, but they definitely don't have to compete for food. Our rabbit, on the other hand, lives a free life. He is able to come and go into his hutch at will, and has a large yard to hop around. The downside is that he shares his life with goats who are obsessed with eating his food.
We had refurbished his old hutch (time and again...) to be as goat-proof as possible; but even still, with four masters of destruction (the goats) working away on the hutch, it was falling apart. When the roof nearly collapsed, replacing the rabbit hutch moved to the top of our list. Brian and Sophie used the last few days of summer to design and build a goat-proof rabbit hutch--not necessarily something most rabbit owners need to consider!
So what does a goat-proof rabbit hutch look like? A completely enclosed home with hidden access. The goats are totally locked out. The rabbit door is actually a hole in the floor of the hutch that he comes up through. And it took nearly 8 hours for Parsley's pea-sized brain to figure out how to do this. We used treat lures, a ramp, and even picked him up and put him inside to show him the "door" in the floor of his new home.
He is quite pleased with himself now. He is able to eat his food in peace, while the goats look longingly through the wire mesh, unable to find a way to his food. And we are able to fill his food dish through a latched opening in the top of the hutch. So far, the new hutch has confounded the goats.
Perhaps the best upside to the new hutch is that it is lower to the ground, and little Sweet Pea (the African Pygmy) finally has a perch that she can jump onto. Her short little legs have kept her from being able to access the high places our other goats love, and it's nice to see her have a little accomplishment in her life.
Sweet Pea--our tiny African pygmy goat |
Thursday, September 8, 2011
A Verbena View
Verbena bonariensis |
The foliage of this verbena is almost non-existent. The plant is light and airy, with purple flowers perched high atop green stalks. They almost float above the garden.
And there is a certain type of white butterfly who loves this plant. It seems that almost every flower stalk has a butterfly on it, or fluttering nearby. I never get tired of watching them. Luckily I have several verbenas near the deck where I can watch the interplay of white butterfly and purple flower.
When the weather turns and we are forced indoors by winter cold and rain, I will think back to summer days like this. Sitting on our sun-soaked deck with a glass of iced tea, surrounded by birds, butterflies and blooms.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Crocosmia--Late Summer Sunshine
Crocosmia naturalized on a hillside |
Bright yellow centers glow in the sunlight |
The foliage is sword-shaped, and almost resembles a clump of grass. In the spring, the new shoots emerge pale-green, and are a welcome sight after a long winter. |
Crocosmia comes in shades of yellow, orange and red |
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Hibiscus in Seattle?
It is sad to watch a plant suffer. And plants which are clearly out of their eco-system, are especially sad cases. I have a plant that is in need of Plant Amnesty--a one way ticket to Honolulu to be precise.
My plant's journey through suffering began last May. It was a birthday gift to me from a good friend who loves plants as much as I do. And when it was given to me, it was stunning. It's leaves were thick and glossy, and it was covered in beautiful golden yellow Hawaii blossoms. No doubt it was started in a nice warm nursery, coddled with simulated south pacific island air. I've never had a hibiscus before, but I was excited about creating a tropical container for our summer patio. My plan was to combine the hibiscus with some other tropical looking plants--maybe an interesting coleus, with a lime-green sweet potato vine and some bright pink impatiens.
My enthusiasm waned however, after I did a bit of research on this plant family. I found out that hibiscus' like temperatures in the range of 70-80 degrees Fahrenheit. In May, we were a long way from that type of warmth! And so I began the work of trying to keep the little hibiscus happy until summer appeared. I kept it in its little plastic pot in a sunny spot in our dining room. And when the temperature got warm enough outside, I moved it to a warm spot on our deck. If you've seen any weather data about Seattle this year, you will find that up until August, my plant's outside time could be measured in hours, not days.
My plan of a tropical container ended as I watched the hibiscus shrink to about half its size. It was withering away! I focused instead on trying to keep it happy. I misted it with water, I put it in the warmest parts of the garden, and finally last week it bloomed again! Such a sunny flower, but I'm not sure it was worth the effort. The plant is still clearly miserable, and summer--what summer we had--is on its way out. This was just not the summer for hibiscus in Seattle.
Because I am still harboring fantasies about tropical plants, I may try to overwinter the hibiscus in the dining room and try again for next year. But if the plant keeps shrinking, this may not end well. Unless of course Plant Amnesty steps in and saves my little hibiscus with a one-way ticket to Hawaii.
My very unhappy hibiscus plant |
My enthusiasm waned however, after I did a bit of research on this plant family. I found out that hibiscus' like temperatures in the range of 70-80 degrees Fahrenheit. In May, we were a long way from that type of warmth! And so I began the work of trying to keep the little hibiscus happy until summer appeared. I kept it in its little plastic pot in a sunny spot in our dining room. And when the temperature got warm enough outside, I moved it to a warm spot on our deck. If you've seen any weather data about Seattle this year, you will find that up until August, my plant's outside time could be measured in hours, not days.
Finally....a bloom! |
Because I am still harboring fantasies about tropical plants, I may try to overwinter the hibiscus in the dining room and try again for next year. But if the plant keeps shrinking, this may not end well. Unless of course Plant Amnesty steps in and saves my little hibiscus with a one-way ticket to Hawaii.
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Fresh Garden Veggies
Our row of broccoli, ready for harvest |
We don't have a very big garden, but I like to grow enough for a few summer meals. Mostly we use the garden for 'grazing'. When the berries start to ripen, the girls will head up to the garden to snack. I try to get a handful of blueberries, strawberries or raspberries for my cereal, but I have to beat both the birds and the girls to the berries! And some of our crops, like broccoli, produce just enough for a few meals. Not really enough to even call a crop! But even so, it is deeply satisfying to walk into the garden and gather dinner.
Our veggies grow nice and big on aged goat manure |
Our harvest is small, but even so, a vegetable garden is a worthwhile undertaking. Nothing tastes better than food plucked fresh from the garden. In fact, our girls eat some vegetables from the garden that they normally might not try. Broccoli, for example, was a vegetable they learned to like only after eating it from the garden. And when they were little, they would eat green beans right off the stalk--followed, of course, by generous amounts of candy. But at least they were grazing on some fresh food.
fresh garden broccoli covered in cheese! |
Friday, July 15, 2011
Our Solar Powered Friends
A bumble bee on the herb Nepeta (also known as catmint) |
Our climate is home to the sweetest, most docile little bumble bees. Right now they are busy working away, gathering pollen and nectar. Sometimes I see them resting on a branch or flower, no doubt taking a much needed break to recharge. Occasionally, they even land on my arm to rest!
A bee waiting for the sun to warm her for flying. |
I haven't seen any honey bees in my garden for years. A friend of mine who is a beekeeper explained that the reason is because there are no bee keepers near my garden. So unless I, or one of my neighbors decides to keep bees, we are out of luck. I am thankful for the other varieties of bees who pollinate for me, but none of them are nearly as efficient as the honey bee.
This year it became very apparent to me just how important bees are for food production. I have two asian pear trees which normally have high fruit yields. But this year we had an exceptionally cold spring--too cold for our solar powered bee friends. I hovered around my asian pear trees every day during blossom time, listening for the sounds of flying insects. It was dead silent. One particularly nice day I went up hoping it was warm enough for the bees to move, but nothing. Not one flying, pollinating creature was able to work in the cold temperatures. And as spring moved along and the blossoms faded and fell, it was quickly apparent that I would have no asian pears this year. Thankfully, it warmed in time for a few apples to set. But the bee problem translates into a food problem very quickly.
A bumble bee deep inside a rhododendron flower |
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